1. Your skin may never be perfect, and that’s okay.

2. Life is too short not to have the underwear, the coffee, and the haircut you want.

3. Everyone (including your family, your coworkers, and your best friend) will talk about you behind your back, and you’ll talk about them too. It doesn’t mean you don’t love each other.

4. It’s okay to spend money on things that make you happy.

5. Sometimes without fault or reason, relationships deteriorate. It will happen when you’re six, it will happen when you’re sixty. That’s life.

Five things I am trying very hard to accept (via aumoe)







For future reference.

Thank you.

For those who would ever need it. -C

reblogging here because i can see this being relevant to anyone who’s ever tried to get out of an abusive relationship

Reblogging because that last comment made me reread the whole thing in a new light and realize this could be vital information. So, putting it out there for everyone, and hoping no one ever really needs it.

I was looking at this & thought I could chuck a Niccolo Machiavelli. Disappear & come back at a much later age.

I’d erase my Internet existence. Disappear from everyone & start a new life. A simpler life in a village or something. No one would know.

I could travel the world helping random people. Saving lives. Then I disappear after a deed is done. I’ll do this everywhere I go around the world. Helping one person at a time. Changing someone’s world at a time. I’ll be a superhero.

I’ll just be a different memory to each person. I’ll appear differently. I’ll change my hair do & everything. Change my eye colour. Change my appearance every time. So no one will know for. Sure who I am. They’ll know what I did. All I’ll leave to them is “return the good favour to someone else”. Then I’ll disappear. I’ll move on.

Slowly like this, hopefully the world will change for the better. Or at least there will be more good.

Slowly like this, I’ll probably lose my identity of who I am & probably lose myself in insanity of denying myself the pleasures of holding relationships with others or other joys in life. But I’ll do what I can to change the world.

This is my design.




I just had a straight guy tell me “Gah I love lesbians” and before I could even say anything, he added, “because, ya know, they like the same thing I do and sometimes it’s nice to get advice from a girl instead of guys who think making love is just repeatedly putting your dick in something, ya know?” And I have never been more proud of the human race.

i was very mad and then i wasn’t